Anna Caroline Bowen and Hickman Line
It was such a lovely post to see last week after tests showed that thanks to her hickman line and the iloprost she was receiving through it her pressures reduced so that instead of the level 4 when diagnosed she is now at level 2!!!!!!! I wanted to write this so that those facing the trauma of the line can see the generally,,no I can't say for everyone but generally the improvement is really good. I myself was on the line at level 4 and came off it at level 2 after 12 months, plus the transition over to oral meds.
I do think that sometimes the thought of the line scares people away from it and I really get that but when we see posts such as these it can make others see that they can have a better life if they trust the specialists. Once on it then of course the hope is that the meds, delivered every two minutes close to the heart can have such an amazing effect. Neither Anna nor I can say it is all plain sailing but then it is not with any of the meds cos at the end of the day we do have ph. I still believe that our specialist doctors know best for us and we should heed their advice as Anna did. So go well Anna. She says she feels so much better in herself and can do more so what a result. As a mom of three, two still at home what a blessing. Of course she will still have her ph days, who of us can say she will not but the results are in, her pressures are lowered so I am so happy for her and her family.
Anna says she would be happy to speak to anyone with young children as that seems to be an issue with them and the worry of the line. If you want to talk to her you can get her on Facebook. I have said here before that Izzy spent her first fifteen months of life with me having the line in, though for three months it was a line only and no pump! She used to twirl her fingers through the line, I never had a mishap with her playing with it but it did transpire on removal that it had been sewn in so tightly it was hard to cut out.
Anna still has hers so is more up to date with any news about it. Please please do not hesitate to contact her. She really wants to help people regarding ph so in actual fact it would make her happy to help you if you are trying to decide whether to go for the line or not, or indeed problems that might occur with the hickman line.
I can't stop thinking about my mom these days and I am wondering if what I said caused her death earlier than it should be. My mom had dementia, not too bad but there it was. She was taken into hospital as she really was not well. She would not eat, she said everything tasted too sweet. This came from somebody who always had a sweet tooth. She was so small, so fragile. I would make her fresh soup each day and take it to her but she said even that was sweet!
We all visited her so she was never short of visitors and we laughed a lot about the things we did as a family when we were younger. I remember her sitting up in bed saying didn't we have a lot of fun when we were all together". Though she had previously told her neighbour she had had enough she wanted to die she was really happy in the hospital, surrounded by all her family.
We knew the end could not be too far away. They talked to us about palliative care, we are not stupid people so we knew what to expect but I think I brought it on sooner and I feel such guilt. She told me one morning that her foot was very painful. We could see no reason for it but I asked mom if she wanted to have some painkillers, I was thinking paracetamol etc. She said yes so away the nurse went to write it down and to get a doctor to agree to it. Unbeknown to me then they began to give her morphine! I would not have agreed had I known that. When I next went to see my mom the following afternoon she was not herself at all acting drugged up, as indeed she was. Her memory was not good and her speech blurred.
Shortly after this she was moved into a side room and she deteriorated quickly. I remember standing with two of my brothers when they wheeled her past us for a shower and she was slumped over in the chair. I cried and asked if it was wrong to wish for her to die. meant it in a kindly way, I did not mean I wished her dead were she ok but it was obvious our mom was no coming back to us. In days she got worse, she just slept. We all continued to visit to talk to her but in the end the inevitable happened and she died. Now feel such guilt. Had I not asked for an pain meds I truly believe she would have lived a few weeks longer. I feel I denied all the family more time with her and I must admit it haunts me, There is nothing I can do, no going back but the guilt is with me and always will be, sorry mom.
Feeling pretty good regarding my lungs
I am trying to come off my gabapentin that was prescribed at the height of my neuropathy when trialling DCA. I am now on a low dose but it does not help my sleeping at all. I am regularly awake in the wee small hours of the night and of course our minds go into overdrive. I keep thinking about the new house! Regarding my ph though things are pretty good. I know my breathing is so much better since my denervation and seems to continue to get better even more so since my last test in January. after the procedure. I am blowing almost 500 on my peak flow monitor which is pretty good. I must also confess here that I am taking special note with my sildenifil and ventolin. In particular with the ventalin i make sure that with each puff I draw it deep into my mouth for the recommended 10 seconds in order for the dose to reach into my lungs as far as it can. I certainly do feel the benefit of doing this as before I was performing this task very perfunctory and know I did not do the ten seconds advised by my specialist. Once again it is a case of our specialists can do so much but we must do the rest ourselves so I am taking all their advice seriously.
I am aware that I was blessed to be given the opportunity to have the denervation and want to do all in my power to show that it was deserved. It is doubtful now that I will be in a position to trial now as my pressures are pretty good so I will miss that. I loved taking the meds in the hope that this one was the cure for us all, that the breakthrough had arrived! I do love hearing about the trials that others are on so please keep us all up to date with how you are doing.
My spondylitis is still giving me a lot of pain but not as much as at first. I can at least type so that has to be better. I am hoping for an appointment at my pain clinic. Indeed we received a message yesterday advising of an appointment at our local hospital for next Friday but as the pair of us are both waiting for appointments for various things we do not know which appointment it is. We hope to receive a letter on Monday telling us this or failing that we shall have to do some sleuthing. If it is me then I really should come off my warfarin five days before so just in case I will stop taking it until we know.
Well this moves on now at a fast pace I am happy to say. We have builders, joiners, plasterers etc crawling all over the place. One result is that when the digger was in digging out for the paths etc we saw this as an opportunity to go in and pull out all the bushes that had been in what was termed by the previous owners as the Secret Garden. None of the foliage in it would have worked with our terrace and he thought of digging up all those roots was just too much. In ten minutes he went in and lifted them out and then pulled all the earth we needed shifting into situ. Well pleased with this.
We are almost at the end of ordering all things needed now by the builders and fitters Just the smaller things to think about such as lights etc. We did worry such a lot over the internal doors and have changed our minds again and gone for something so far away from our normal but feel that with this house they will work very well. The granite we chose for our kitchen we actually saw in situ last week on a display kitchen and HATED it! Fortunately we have been able to ring up and sort this out. Monday we will go over and choose a different one. So relieved we saw it like this as we would have found it to difficult to live with once competed. The kitchen was to be delivered next week much to our horror but fortunately there was a mix up in Germany between them and the delivery company so now will be delivered to another address in Manchester. When we are ready it will be delivered to our new house.
So proud of this little girl who is doing so well at her piano lessons that her parents have decided to send her for some private ones. How I hope this is a talent that grows with her and not a flash in the pan, would love to play the piano myself. She had a fall three weeks ago after her swimming lesson and though grandad brushed all the dirt off her as soon as he could and her mommy washed her well when she was home she still must have had some dirt hidden deep in her thumb, This caused her a lot of pain and though it was bathed often in TCP it continued to be a problem. It is beginning to get better after being given two lots of meds by the doctors which is a relief to me as i know sepsis can enter the body by something like this. She gets excited whenever she sees changes to the house and is looking forward to her bedroom being decorated.
I am so sorry for not being around for some time but I know you understand how it is. Pain is an evil thing and I just found it hard to cope with it. Thank you so much for not abandoning me, I had so many messages, both private and public and also long telephone calls, it was very kind of you to continue to ask how I was feeling.
I send warm love to you all and once again hope you are all doing as well as can be. The weather is glorious here so I am going to take a shower and go and sit in the park.